This is a guest-post by my cool and brilliant colleague Professor of Spanish language and literature who also blogs as Clarissa on issues of feminism, literature, journalism , immigration, politics, and her love for the Kindle. ๐ Originally from Ukraine, she migrated to Canada, and she got her PhD at Yale University in the United States. She has recently taught at Cornell University before coming over to our prestigiousย SI University. Hers is the first in a series of guest blogposts coming on this blog in the coming weeks. Thank you Clarissa for the post. Find her blog here.
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When I was 22, I emigrated from Ukraine to Canada. I was fully prepared to experience a massive culture shock but none came. Sure, it took some time to get used to the idea of a credit card and a check-book, realize that a bus driver doesn’t give out change and there is no need to negotiate the price of a ride with the cab-driver before getting into the cab, and figure out why maple syrup can be poured on bacon and eggs. The process of learning these small things was really fun and caused me no shock whatsoever.
Five years later I decided to go to graduate school in the United States. Having lived in North America for a while, watching American TV and reading American books and newspapers, I expected even less of a culture shock on this change of residence. I was only moving to Connecticut, where the climate and the way of life were supposed to be pretty similar to what I had gotten used to in Canada.
Boy, was I ever wrong. A massive culture shock hit me immediately after crossing the US border and remained with me for years to come. It took time and effort to understand this new reality, learn to like, and eventually even love it.
I the US I discovered a deeply divided society. Glaring class inequalities, the likes of which I never saw back in Canada, racism, religious fanaticism, gender inequalities, economically devastated areas with the kind of poverty I never saw even back in Ukraine, crime, violence, inept governmental strcutures. All this was very different from the US I had seen in movies and TV shows.
But soon I also discovered that yet another US exists. The country of intellectuals, thinkers, artists. The country of hard-working, kind, generous people, who have not abandoned the struggle for the perfect society they inherited from their founders. The country of intellectually curious people. The country of people who hate injustice and inequality. The country that deserves better than the corrupt structures governing them.
When people read the very critical things I write about the US on my blog, they sometimes ask me, “Why do you live in this country if you dislike it so much?”. But I ask, does hating injustice and inequality mean hating America? Or is it just the opposite?
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I love Clarissa’s blog because of the way she looks at the world. Even though she hasn’t called it that, her blog is a travelogue of sorts as well – a response to the American society from the viewpoint of an immigrant. And as expected of someone of her level of brilliance, she doesn’t suffer fools gladly, and she says what’s in her mind no matter whose ox is gored. I particularly like the way she responds to the people who make foolish or hateful comments on her blog. I wish I could be that quick-witted sometimes. ๐
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/
Oh, thank you so much, Kola. I was kind of intimidated by writing for your blog because of how good your writing style is. So I’m very honored to appear on this blog as a guest writer.
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 11:18am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
Hey, stop with the flatter already. I love your blog, and my readers will, too.
Thanks for stopping by.
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 11:43am.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/
I’m an Aspie, we don’t flatter. We are always brutally honest. We also either totally love something or totally hate it. ๐ ๐
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 11:58am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
Alright. I believe you. ๐
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 12:07pm.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
So Clarissa, if you could make a choice between the two countries Canada and the US, which would you choose, and why? I know that both have their positives and negatives. What would influence your choice, and what would you change about any of them?
Over to you.
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 12:10pm.
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Vera Ezimora at http://www.verastic.com
Go Clarissa!
Now, I’m off to visit her blog. LOL @ the culture shock between U.S. and Canada. Who would have thunk it?
Posted at February 10, 2010 on 3:55pm.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/
Thank you, Vera!
Kola: I would love to live in Toronto. What a wonderful place. Canada is great because it has free medicate, cheap higher education, almost no religious fanaticism, strong social programs, and canadian conservatives are a lot like the US progressives.
But there are no jobs for me in Canada, so I’ll just keep trying to make the US better.
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Posted at February 11, 2010 on 8:19am.
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oladimeji at http://YourWebsite
I enjoyed reading this piece especially because i am about relocating to Canada,Toronto. However, i am a bit shocked to read that Clarrissa said she couldn’t get a job in Canada. My shock arose from the fact that a lot of noise is being made in Nigeria about job availability in Canada and the desire of the Canadian government to see people migrate to work there. May be Clarissa could say more on this.
Posted at February 12, 2010 on 9:42am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
I think it would depend on your industry, or qualification for that matter. I can understand why a PhD holder from Yale would rather seek job in the US than in Canada. Oh wait, I can’t understand it actually. ๐ Clarissa, where are you?
Posted at February 12, 2010 on 5:11pm.
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Yemi Adesanya at http://YourWebsite
I would love to hear more about her experience in Canada as well, how she got used to the cold, if more ppl speak French or it is English? Discrimination? Standard and cost of living etc.
It is nice for immigrants to write about the US like this too, it will some aspiring immigrants realise it is not everything there that works, crime scene investigations are not always solved as in CSI, the government is not totally corruption free etc.
Thank you Clarrissa, for this post. I will visit your blog too.
Posted at February 16, 2010 on 11:48am.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com/
I’m sorry I disappeared without answering all the questions! It’s the crazy time of the semester.
Oladimeji: The reason why I couldn’t find a job in Canada is that in the field of Hispanic Studies there is a very weird and a very specific situation that, luckily, does not extend to other fields. The unemployment rate in Canada right now is higher than usual beause of the crisis but lower than in the US. The immigration process to Canada is fairly easy. It’s extremely easy in comparison with the process of immigrating to Canada. So of you thinking about immigrating to Canada, I definitely recommed it.
Yemi Adesanya : I come from a country that is COLDER than Canada and has more snow. ๐ Summers are very hot in Montreal and Toronto, so it’s the heat that I had to get used to. ๐
I lived in Quebec where everybody speaks French. I never managed to learn French but I got by perfectly on Enlgish. My mother speaks not one word of either English or French and she’s been living in Canada fr the past 12 years. ๐
Discrimination exists everywhere, unfortunately. My sister is a job recruiter and she says that she had as clients companies who discriminated against prospective employees on the base of race, age, gender, etc. This is very sad, but it is more pervasive in the US. In everyday communication, however, Canadians are VERY welcoming to people from other cultures, people who lok and dress differently and speak with an accent.
The standard of living in Canada is very high. Taxes are huge but medicare is absolutely free, higher education is very inexpensive, social services are fantastic.
Feel free to ask anything about immigration experiences in canada. I’d be happy to share my knowledge.
Posted at February 19, 2010 on 5:01pm.